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by Trisha Feedles on November 26th, 2004

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My boyfriend has pornographic DVDs and I am having a hard time dealing with it. Am I not doing something right for him to have purchased them?

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  • by DUKDWNBCC on November 29th, 2004

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    no it's not your fault at all. talk to him and see if there's something thats happening on the tapes, thats not happening with you. go to one of those shops with him and purchase a " better love making dvd " , that you both can enjoy. you might find out something new that you like , that he wasn't doing or spending more time on.
    or maybe you don't talk dirty ,and thats what he likes most about the porno movies. have an all out talk with him on likes and dislikes . and get that "better love making dvd " . it might be the answer .
    good luck

    im not talking about the mechanics. what im saying is, that another alternative to him trying to get her to watch porno's with him. in hopes that she will start to talk dirty, and try 90 percent of the things on the porno, that she said she would ever do.
    or another alternative for her , instead of agreeing to watch porno's with her boyfriend (which might make her upset ,or gross her out ). is to buy a better love making dvd . which will cover a wide range of love making, from touching ,caressing,
    great foreplay, communicating during sex, letting your partner know what you like(when and how long you want attention there) , talking sexy (dirty),role playing and numberous positions. so hopefully since the dvd's aren't done in a raunchy way, and cover such a wide range of getting to know your partner, as well as love making .
    that it should cover everything on a porno tape, but in a less offensive and acceptible way to her . that's not to say that she wouldn't enjoy watching a porno with her boyfriend . this is merly another alternative , too the situation.

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    • This does not have anything to do with the mechanics of having sex. It has more to do with this man's view of women.

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on November 29th, 2004

    • This could possibly work. It seems that Anonymous thinks that ALL porn watchers are misogynists.

      8 Jan 2004-10 Dec 2009

      by 8 Jan 2004-10 Dec 2009 on November 29th, 2004

    • Thanks. I have talked to him; he said that is has nothing to do with me not fullfilling him. I guess I expected more from him

      Trisha Feedles

      by Trisha Feedles on December 1st, 2004

    • This is possibly worth a try.One wonders what anonymous thinks about women who enjoy porn...

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on January 30th, 2006

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