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by blnksbbygrl on October 19th, 2006

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I just recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me, so I dumped him. He feels no remorse at all, and doesn't even feel bad for hurting me. What can I do to get over the hurt and what he's done to me?

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  • by Osteon on October 20th, 2006

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    First of all, I would like to say that I'm sorry for the pain you have to go through. I know how it feels because somebody once close to me cheated, so I know how difficult it is to cope with.
    The best thing you can do for yourself is to do something for yourself such as working out or buying new clothes. Try not to have too much animosity towards him because that's negative energy that you don't need to waste, and it will only bring you down. Think of yourself as fortunate in that you found out how selfish he is before you became very commited to him such as marriage and children.
    Be aware that most relationships don't work. I say that because we go through life actually looking for somebody we feel is right for us, and we go through different relationships until we find that special person who we can love and trust.
    I promise you, with time, you will get over that painful feeling. In the meantime, keep it in mind that there are good men out there who deserve a chance to prove it.

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    • thank you so much :)

      your comment was very helpful, and very thoughtful and wise. i appreciate you answering me :).

      blnksbbygrl

      by blnksbbygrl on October 20th, 2006

    • I've been hurt many times...I'm still looking for that special someone to love and trust and get the same in return.

      Tantric

      by Tantric on January 5th, 2007

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