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by TravelBug on July 5th, 2011

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really looking for something helpful advice/ support :-(

So my ex-bf, the douche, gave me an STI that i cannot return. Gutted. So i joined this online community for support. Through this community i met someone in a similar situation but he lives in a different state. Was just chat at first, then friends, then started developing into possibly something more. So after 3 months we decided we had prob better meet. So last fri i flew to see him. Fri night date was a bit awkward, sat night date was amazing and sun was pretty good too. But sunday night just before flying home i had in insecure, unreasonable female moment and had a bit of a blow out and well i was forcing him to try and talk to me when he didn't want to. And then i just wanted to fix him so sent too many texts. So now i've kinda freaked him out and he's a bit turned off. his words. and he just wants to be friends. But he doesn't yet know if he wants to be friends that you actually go and see or if it's more acquaintences where you only talk to them when you have nothing better to do. So i'm a little gutted. I guess what i'm looking for is a little comfort and support. I just want to know if things will be ok and if there's a chance he might change his mind again. I think i like him. Thanks

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  • by ishala on July 6th, 2011

    ishala

    you sound like your insecure with yourself if you looking for sympathy and just by the way you freaked out on him, just let him have his space to decide what he wants to do and trying to talk to him more and more is gonna freak him out more and more hes going to think your an over emotional stalker, if he wants to be friends then he will contact you if not he wont

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    • geez bit harsh don't you think. don't you think i already know this now? it's great you've got some advice for me but you could at least be nice about it. if you're not going to be nice don't bother answering at all! waste of your time and mine.

      TravelBug

      by TravelBug on July 7th, 2011

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