by Lisa Marchande on October 28th, 2004

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I have heard that a rising number of young teenage girls have been experimenting in same-sex orgies and sex games when they have slumber parties. Is this true?

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  • by MikeD81 on November 2nd, 2004

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    Yeah, its true. Lesbian sex romps and sexual games are becoming the most practiced 'activities' at teen girl sleepovers and slumber parties today. I saw a news report a few weeks or months earlier saying that 'orgies, games and experimentation' are some of the most, if not THE most popular reasons that girls have sleepovers. The question you might be asknig now is "why?"

    Basically, its because of the society we live in. We're basically told everyday in almost every form of media that girl-on-girl sex is not only okay, its widely encouraged and looked at as a 'cool' thing to do. Music Videos, teen drama shows, sitcoms, movies, MTV, and even cartoons, video games, and other such forms of media tend to show girl-on-girl relations as acceptable and encouragable forms of "entertainment." Of course, if someone is a homosexual, then to each his/her own. But the problem with this is that the girls undertaking these activities are typically NOT homosexual, but are learning to become homosexual because of it.

    I've heard of lesbian encounters and to the more extreme, lesbian orgies occurring at slumber parties of 4 or more girls at ages as young as 11-13 years old. I even heard today (November 2nd 2004, Election Day) that an issue in one state is concerning a growing amount of lesbianism in public schools, to the point where it has gotten so extreme that they monitor hallways, bathrooms and locker rooms, allowing only 1 girl in the bathroom at a time, having girls change in locker rooms in supervised groups of 3, etc. Showers have apparently been banned as well.

    On the overall topic, its because of the frequent and easy exposure to girl-on-girl activity that lesbianism at slumber parties is becoming so widely practiced. You can't ever turn on your tv past 11pm at night without seeing a 'Girls Gone Wild' advertisement or infomercial on at least 6 or 7 different channels, where they make little effort to censor the activities of what I consider to be this country's most trashy and disgusting girls. Since the advertisement makes it look like so much fun, many girls are getting the idea into their head of 'why not?'

    The actual events that ocur at the sex parties goes beyond innocent experimentation with a kiss on the lips or the cheek. Multiple partners, french kissing, touching, masturbating each other, fingering vaginally and anally, oral sex(most frequent activity), multi-person showers, use of sex toys(how the younger age groups acquire them is a mystery in most cases), experimentation with foods and liquids, and any other type of lesbian sexual interactions imaginable are being practiced. Many times the parents are AWARE of this and do nothing. I remember one parent that was interviewed saying, and I quote "At least she's not doing this with boys. I feel more comfortable knowing that my daughter is just having harmless fun with her friends rather than having sex with a boy." This is typical of parents who do nothing about this situation...they think that this is 'harmless experimentation' when it is in fact leading to sexual confusion among the girls. If I remember correctly, the follow is the list of popularity among those activities in decreasing order:

    1) Oral Sex (the single most popular activity)
    2) Passionate Kissing w/groping, touching and caressing
    3) Vaginal Pentration with fingers
    4) Use of Sex Toys
    5) Multi-person showers
    6) Masturbation of others
    7) Anal Penetration with fingers
    8) Use of food in sex play
    9) oral sex on the anus (most unpopular, but still practiced)

    I forget the entire number of girls interviewed for the stastic, but I beleive it was said that 89% of girls between the ages of 11 and 18 that were interviewed said they have either had homosexual encounters or have considered bi-sexuality. 46% of the same girls interviewed have said they have 'converted' to lesbianism, including breaking up with boyfriends, after having multiple sexual encounters at slumber parties or other group get togethers with girls. The age range statistics for each group, as in those most likely to participate in same sex encounters, were as follows:

    11-14: 57%
    14-18: 74%
    18+: 89%


    According to research, groups of girls are more likely to participate in same sex encounters if there is one or more girls in the group that are significantly older than the others (by at least 2 or 3 years), because in many cases these older girls have a strong influence on the younger ones. This includes older sisters or older relatives such as cousins. This has lead to unhealthy relations between family members.

    There are warning signs to look out for. If you, or anyone else reading this question is a parent, look for these signs:

    - Extemely high rate of sleepovers (multiple times a week)
    - Decreasing grades in school (indicative of sexual preoccupation)
    - Unusual closeness between daughter and her friends (physically and emotinally)
    - Sudden huge interest in female models (posters or magazine pull outs for example)
    - Discovery of lesbian pornography or female nudity in daughter's possession
    - Unusual moaning or breathing soundswith friends behind closed doors
    - Discovery of sex toys, sexual aids (lubricants, etc)
    - Extremely volatile reaction to the answer of 'No' if daughter asks to go to a slumber party
    - Slumber Party is going to be at someone's house where there are no parents

    Those are just some of the signs to look out for. Same sex encounters at slumber parties have become so commonplace now that it is practically impossible to know for sure whether or not it is going on. If you ever suspect it may be happening, you should insist that, next time your daughter wants to go to a slumber party, it shoudl be at your house, where you can monitor it.

    The bottomline is yes, lesbianism at slumber parties is the single most practiced activity at these get-togethers, and it IS taking a toll on the easily influenced minds of these young girls. The overall rate of lesbianism is increasing, witht he highest increase being among teens from 11-18 years of age. Unfortuantely this is the trend and the influence of the society we are living in.

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    • Dare I ask where did you collect this data and how did they collect their data?

      Anonymous

      by Anonymous on September 17th, 2009

    • Yeah this answer seems... like it came from a christian group or something. I will not say that it isn't happening, but when I was 13 I remember hearing the same stories and in fact you can even find stories of such behaviors going back to Roman times. I really don;t think it has increased since then. Still I might be a bit concerned if I had a daughter and found a monster dildo under her pillow.

      jTads

      by jTads on February 18th, 2010

    • there are more gay men than women. therefore more men experimenting than women!

      blondie44

      by blondie44 on February 19th, 2010

    • @blondie44
      There are more gay women than men, girl are experimenting alot.

      @MikeD81
      i love your answer, does this make you sad? i dont like such fake girls

      Steel on Water

      by Steel on Water on May 15th, 2010

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